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If you think that marriage can solve all your problems, you are wrong. Ask a married friend. But it can give you safety and fun if you play by the rules.
But we forget the rules before we get married. And when a sailor forgets his navigation rules, he experiences a shipwreck.
You see, people get married almost without training. If, for example, you went to university, you are offered to take a qualifying exam. You may even be asked to show other supportive qualifications, such as the TOEFL, if you are enrolled in an American university.
But it’s a trifle compared to a permanent marriage. But the only requirement for marriage registration is your signature. Nothing more.
However, there is a danger to look out for before adding your signature to this marriage certificate. And what are they?
Bad expectations
People view marriage as some fantastic story where the characters live happily. But this is never the case. Because the great expectation of your Sleeping Beauty or Prince Magic can turn out to be a bad dream. The love, attention, and support you have longed for in marriage can turn out to be a story of rejection and disappointment.
Incompatibility
You may also find after marriage that you are both at the end - with different interests. Those characteristics that were hidden before marriage are now revealed. And if I had known, it would have been history. (Not because of inconsistency and your indulgent comrade!)
Conflict
Your Happy Valley or Happy Islands, now, it turns out, is a battlefield for quarrels, fights, and God forbid - physical violence. The sweetest words, like honeycombs that were used to win your hand in marriage, are now becoming weapons of abuse and war.
Apathy
Maybe one day you will find yourself saying: I am no longer interested. And then the marriage stretches and continues as a factory worker endures a bad job - to keep body and soul together. And one day apathy will turn into hatred and you will find yourself telling your partner that the game is over!
Money
Don’t fool yourself into thinking that money will make you happy. The opposite is true, says American millionaire Paul Getty.
Now, say, in a joint venture is a search for money? Suppose your previously wealthy husband and wife suffered financial hardships? And you, who got used to the summer holidays in the Virgin Islands and sailed on yachts in the Mediterranean, now see the poverty and hardships that look you in the face? What are you going to do?
Paternity
You can learn that the love you had for your partner starts to fall when the kids start coming. The reason may be that you no longer have time for each other, or your husband is getting older. Is it time to file for divorce?
Deception
It can find out for you if you live with an unbeliever, a betrayal of trust, rather than a friend and trustee. Now, let’s say you’ve learned that your friend tricked you into his marriage story? Or what if you find out that your husband cheated on you - committed adultery?
Sex
Let your partner start depriving you of sex? Or what if sex, which was supposed to be fun, now becomes mechanical? Some have even used sex as a lucrative tool - buy me a Swiss gold watch and I’ll give you sex!
Some wives woke up after the wedding day to find out that their husbands were impotent or eunuchs. The wife’s husband was told they would have died if they had had sex. Because they have a husband who satisfies their sexual desires in a spirit world! What did you call it?
Superstitions
It can also affect your marriage depending on where you live. Infertility, miscarriages, invisible attacks, deaths, and broken marriages were allegedly caused by evil spirits. Does that bother you? Maybe not. But know that evil spirits exist.
Authorities
If you allow your inlays to invade your family, they can ruin your marriage. Now you both should be able to solve your marital problems without turning to your parents and without asking for advice.
Friends
What types of associates do you and your partner have? Are they unhappy friends? They will not help your marriage. Know that bad company can ruin good manners.
These are some things that can become a shipwreck of a marriage. It may not be in your family. But know that there is no perfect family on this earth. Therefore, your family should have a problem of one or the other. What is now required for a marriage to be successful?
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